🌿 Healthy Selfishness: Choosing God, Growth, and Me

By Tiawana Grant
“A voice for the silent. A home for the healing.”

“There comes a time when peace is no longer something you chase — it’s something you become.”

🕊️ Reflection: The Moment of Awakening

There comes a moment in every woman’s life when the mirror doesn’t just show her reflection — it shows her truth.

She realizes she’s spent years trying to prove her worth to everyone but herself. She’s loved deeply, forgiven endlessly, and given completely — often to those who never noticed the quiet ache in her giving.

But one day, something inside shifts. The woman who used to chase peace begins to become peace. She understands that love doesn’t mean losing herself to prove she’s worthy of being kept — it means standing rooted in the grace of who she already is.

This reflection is not about bitterness; it’s about awakening. It’s about learning that sometimes the most spiritual act of love is choosing yourself without guilt — because that is where healing begins — not from pride, but from purpose.

This is my story of letting go, choosing God, and discovering that self-love, when anchored in faith, is not selfish — it’s sacred.

🌸 My Purpose

I write for the woman who’s tired of being the one who gives until she disappears — for the woman learning that boundaries are not rejection, but redemption. Through my words, I want to remind others that faith and healing can coexist with softness, and that growth is never revenge — it’s renewal.

đź’› My Mission

Through Grace Harvest Haven and my healing reflections, I use faith, storytelling, and compassion to create safe spaces for women to rediscover themselves. Every story I write is a seed — planted to help others find their voice, their purpose, and their peace.


There comes a time when peace is no longer something you chase — it’s something you become.”

If this page resonates with you, share it with someone who needs a gentle reminder to choose peace.